Discrimination or not??

This was featured in The Straits Times on 22 Dec 08

'Carriers shouldn't marry'

KUALA LUMPUR - HIV carriers should not be allowed to marry, in order to avoid having sick children, a top Malaysian politician was quoted on Monday as saying.

'Somebody who is very sick like that should not be allowed to get married,' Mohammad Nizar Jamaluddin, chief minister of northern Perak state was quoted as saying by New Straits Times newspaper.

'If there's any breeding, sorry for having to use that word, the embryo will also carry the same virus. So that is even more unfair because you are actually passing that disease on to the child.'

He had been asked to comment on a statement by an official of the Department of Islamic Development Malaysia that Muslims who test positive for the human immunodeficiency virus, or HIV, would still be allowed to marry.

An aide to Mr Nizar, who is a member of the opposition Islamist party Parti Islam se-Malaysia (PAS), said the minister was referring to both Muslims and non-Muslims.

Deputy Prime Minister Najib Razak was quoted last week as saying all Muslim couples in peninsular Malaysia must undergo HIV screening before getting married.

The debate on the right of HIV/AIDS carriers, especially Muslims, to marry comes as mostly Muslim Malaysia is struggling to allay concerns of a rise in hardline Islam.

Prime Minister Abdullah Ahmad Badawi said last month Muslims are allowed to do yoga but without chanting, reversing an outright ban that had caused a flap in the country.

The government has also threatened to shut down a Catholic newspaper for using the world 'Allah', saying it could inflame the country's Muslim population.

Politically dominant ethnic Malay Muslims form about 60 percent of the population of roughly 26 million, while the ethnic Indian and Chinese minorities include Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhists and Christians. -- REUTERS

Should this be considered an act of discrimination against HIV/AIDS carriers?
Is it a move that makes sense to protect the future generations born into such families?
or is it a statement that claims inability of HIV/AIDS carriers to be responsible when it comes to family planning?

after all, marriage is about a union of two individuals and does not in all cases lead to the couple having children. A couple comprising a HIV/AIDS carrier can still share the same food, can still kiss, hug and hold hands, can have sex (precautions can be taken but there are no guarantees of course so it depends on the couple) and spend the rest of their lives together in love, till death does them part...

Reminds me of the huge debate about Proposition 8 in California, USA regarding gay marriages...

What do YOU think?

About my previous read and my current read

I finished "The Book of Five Rings" the same day I started reading it... wasn't too long in terms of content but like most books that touch on zen, messages can be short but extremely powerful... I felt it was a very thought-provoking book, and constantly reminded me of my times training in martial arts some years back... I think I will get more out of the book if I knew more about Zen teachings, or had someone or something to guide me through in terms of the deeper contexts and messages within the statements... so all in end, it was an enjoyable read though unfortunately I do not feel like I have fully been able to interpret its deeper teachings...

nevertheless, I have moved on to a new book: "Capitalism at the Crossroads" by Stuart L. Hart

It actually belongs to Shirley, who lent it to Rina who didn't manage to return it back.... and Rina didn't actually manage to read it till now so I borrowed it after learning from Shirley that it's with Rina (phew what an explanation haha)

anyway, the sub-title reads "Aligning Business, Earth and Humanity" so the book essentially looks at sustainable development and the role businesses can and should play in enabling it... not only does it introduce concepts, but it also explains these through actual case studies and interactions with corporate leaders...

Should be an interesting read, and I'm happy to be able to start learning more in this field!!

My latest read - The Book of Five Rings

I was clearing up the files and folders in my laptop, and came across an ebook I got quite some years back.. I don't even remember who passed it to me...

The book is titled "The Book of Five Rings" or "五輪書" or "Go Rin No Sho" written by the samurai warrior Miyamoto Musashi in 1645.

In general, it presents his teachings on sword-fighting strategy and Zen philosophy but like Sun Tzu's "Art of War", it's applicability extends into life and all forms of competition (including businesses).

in any case, should be an interesting read.. update and thoughts after I am done :)

My Video "productions"

As mentioned in an earlier post, I was helping out with the organizing of the AIESEC Singapore Gala Dinner 2008. This year being the global 60th Anniversary for AIESEC, the celebrations in Singapore were aimed at being much much bigger too... so yes the Dinner was held on 13th Dec 2008 to great success, with a total turnout of almost 300 people...

I'm happy that my videos were screened during the dinner as well so here they are.. all these are made using the Pinnacle Studio 12 software... I can't say I'm an expert in video editing but at the least I'm much better than when I first started using the software :)

Opening Video to Gala Dinner 2008


History of AIESEC Singapore - 1972 to 2008


Tribute To Mr. Mike Gorrie


and this is something outside of the Gala Dinner, the introduction video to Developing Leaders Day 2008

Back from KL!

I'm back from KL! the trip was a short one, we left Singapore on Friday afternoon and got back on Sunday night... so all in all, really just a 2 day trip...

But what a great 2 day trip it was! From catching up with old friends by dropping by the MyLDS site for 1 night stay over, to heading to KL city and checking into a backpacker hostel I stayed at in 2005, to eating LOTS of yummy yummy food, to enjoying fantastic AIESEC Malaysia RACE Dinner (formal dinner) and taking photos plus catching up with old friends, to all the random conversations had with the boys I was traveling with and to the fulfilling massage...

what a great trip... am totally refreshed coming back :)

next big thing: AIESEC Singapore NLDS! am interested to see how I will adapt to playing a non-faci role (the last time I was a full delegate was in 2004... I have been agenda manager and facilitator for all NLDS since then) but looking forward to it!

Out of Town...

I'm going to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia to sight see a bit and to attend the RACE 2008 Dinner! (that's the AIESEC Malaysia Gala Dinner)

on a slightly related note, next week is Singapore NLDS!

So will be disappearing from the blogging scene for a while :)

Questions Questions

Found this on wan xin's blog and I was bored so decided to do it...


Copy the list below and bold all of the ones you have done.

1. Touched an iceberg
2. Slept under the stars
3. Been a part of a hockey fight
4. Changed a baby’s diaper
5. Watched a meteor shower
6. Given more than you can afford to charity
7. Swam with wild dolphins
8. Climbed a mountain
9. Held a tarantula
10. Said “I love you” and meant it
11. Bungee jumped
12. Visited Paris
13. Watched a lightning storm at sea
14. Stayed up all night long and watched the sun rise
15. Seen the Northern Lights
16. Gone to a huge sports game
17. Walked the stairs to the top of the Statue of Liberty
18. Grown and eaten your own vegetables
19. Looked up at the night sky through a telescope
20. Had an uncontrollable giggling fit at the worst possible moment
21. Had a pillow fight
22. Bet on a winning horse
23. Taken a sick day when you’re not ill
24. Built a snow fort
25. Held a lamb
26. Gone skinny dipping
27. Taken an ice cold bath
28. Had a meaningful conversation with a beggar
29. Seen a total eclipse
30. Ridden a roller coaster
31. Hit a home run
32. Danced like a fool and not cared who was looking
33. Adopted an accent for fun
34. Visited the birthplace of your ancestors
35. Felt very happy about your life, even for just a moment
36. Loved your job 90% of the time
37. Had enough money to be truly satisfied
38. Watched wild whales
39. Gone rock climbing (rock wall yes, rock no)
40. Gone on a midnight walk on the beach
41. Gone sky diving
42. Visited Ireland
43. Ever bought a stranger a meal at a restaurant
44. Visited India
45. Bench-pressed your own weight
46. Milked a cow
47. Alphabetized your personal files
48. Ever worn a superhero costume
49. Sung karaoke
50. Lounged around in bed all day
51. Gone scuba diving
52. Kissed in the rain
53. Played in the mud
54. Gone to a drive-in theater
55. Done something you should regret, but don’t
56. Visited the Great Wall of China
57. Started a business
58. Taken a martial arts class
59. Been in a movie
60. Gone without food for 3 days
61. Made cookies from scratch
62. Won first prize in a costume contest (I didn't wear the costume.. just helped make it)
63. Got flowers for no reason
64. Been in a combat zone
65. Spoken more than one language fluently
66. Gotten into a fight while attempting to defend someone
67. Bounced a check
68. Read - and understood - your credit report
69. Recently bought and played with a favorite childhood toy
70. Found out something significant that your ancestors did
71. Called or written your Congress person
72. Picked up and moved to another city to just start over
73. Walked the Golden Gate Bridge
74. Helped an animal give birth
75. Been fired or laid off from a job
76. Won money
77. Broken a bone
78. Ridden a motorcycle (does riding as a passenger count?)
79. Driven any land vehicle at a speed of greater than 100 mph
80. Hiked to the bottom of the Grand Canyon
81. Slept through an entire flight: takeoff, flight, and landing (I once slept through takeoff and flight but woke up before landing)
82. Taken a canoe trip that lasted more than 2 days
83. Eaten sushi
84. Had your picture in the newspaper
85. Read The Bible cover to cover
86. Changed someone’s mind about something you care deeply about
87. Gotten someone fired for their actions
88. Gone back to school
89. Changed your name
90. Caught a fly in the air with your bare hands
91. Eaten fried green tomatoes
92. Read The Iliad
93. Taught yourself an art from scratch
94. Killed and prepared an animal for eating.
95. Apologized to someone years after inflicting the hurt
96. Communicated with someone without sharing a common spoken language
97. Been elected to public office
98. Thought to yourself that you’re living your dream
99. Had to put someone you love into hospice care
100. Sold your own artwork to someone who didn’t know you
101. Had a booth at a street fair
102. Dyed your hair
103. Been a DJ (at AIESEC Conferences! Haha)
104. Rocked a baby to sleep
105. Dropped a cat from a high place to see if it really lands on all fours (I thought of it but couldn’t get a cat haha)
106. Raked your carpet
107. Brought out the best in people
108. Brought out the worst in people
109. Worn a mood ring
110. Ridden a horse
111. Carved an animal from a piece of wood or bar of soap (I carved it out of chalk)
112. Cooked a dish where four people asked for the recipe
113. Buried a child
114. Gone to a Broadway (or equivalent to your country) play
115. Been inside the pyramids
116. Shot a basketball into a basket
117. Danced at a disco
118. Played in a band
119. Shot a bird
120. Gone to an arboretum
121. Tutored someone
122. Ridden a train
123. Brought an old fad back into style
124. Eaten caviar
125. Let a salesman talk you into something you didn’t need
126. Ridden a giraffe or elephant
127. Published a book
128. Pieced a quilt
129. Lived in an historic place
130. Acted in a play or performed on a stage
131. Asked for a raise
132. Made a hole-in-one
133. Gone deep sea fishing
134. Gone roller skating
135. Run a marathon
136. Learned to surf
137. Invented something
138. Flown first class
139. Spent the night in a 5-star luxury suite
140. Flown in a helicopter
141. Visited Africa
142. Sang a solo
143. Gone spelunking
144. Learned how to take a compliment
145. Written a love-story
146. Seen Michelangelo’s David
147. Had your portrait painted
148. Written a fan letter
149. Spent the night in something haunted
150. Owned a St. Bernard or Great Dane
151. Ran away
152. Learned to juggle
153. Been a boss
154. Sat on a jury
155. Lied about your weight
156. Gone on a diet
157. Found an arrowhead or a gold nugget
158. Written a poem
159. Carried your lunch in a lunchbox
160. Gotten food poisoning
161. Gone on a service, humanitarian or religious mission
162. Hiked the Grand Canyon
163. Sat on a park bench and fed the ducks
164. Gone to the opera
165. Gotten a letter from someone famous
166. Worn knickers
167. Ridden in a limousine
168. Attended the Olympics
169. Can hula or waltz (learnt it but I suck at it)
170. Read a half dozen Nancy Drew or Hardy Boys books
171. Been stuck in an elevator
172. Had a revelatory dream
173. Thought you might crash in an airplane
174. Had a song dedicated to you on the radio or at a concert
175. Saved someone’s life
176. Eaten raw whale
177. Know how to tat, smock or do needlepoint
178. Laughed till your side hurt
179. Straddled the equator
180. Taken a photograph of something other than people that is worth framing
181. Gone to a Shakespeare Festival
182. Sent a message in a bottle
183. Spent the night in a hotel
184. Been a cashier
185. Seen Old Faithful geyser erupt
186. Joined a union
187. Donated blood or plasma
188. Built a campfire
189. Kept a blog
190. Had hives
191. Worn custom made shoes or boots
192. Made a PowerPoint presentation
193. Taken a Hunter’s Safety Course
194. Served at a soup kitchen
195. Conquered the Rubik’s cube
196. Know CPR
197. Ridden in or owned a convertible
198. Found a long lost friend
199. Helped solve a crime
200. Responded to a NJP newsletter